Life Doesn't Need To Be Purrrfect

Life is not perfect, as always, there has to be something..some problems, mistakes...somewhere in our so called "perfect day" or "perfect time" ..etc..even when we're so deep in happiness, success, love of the people around us. There are always black dots that stand in our vision...And of course any of us would be annoyed with being blind by these black dots in our lives. Do you know why we always get pissed off with these black tiny little annoying things? Why can't our lives just get super perfect and nothing can make us feel upset about? Why is that wish too much? Because we're used to seeing everything with our own eyes and only to forget to see life with our very deary, lovely heart :)

So what is seeing things with our eyes? And what is seeing things with your heart? And do i have to even give those two real long definitions? I've already known you guys are capable of understanding them but i'll give you some tips. You know..for easier imagination :D

Life is not perfect..as always..but it ONLY GETS perfect when you THINK it's perfect. What i'm trying to say is today there are so so so many things you have to worry about..your salary, your lover, your job, your bills, your family, your husband,wife..etc..i mean..you think that everything is fine...who knows what could go wrong in just a second or two? Everything could and would go wrong and you will easily get shocked or depressed. It's a normal thing that happens to everybody right? But that's when you SEE it going wrong ways. I see that, i see this..something's not right and all. Hey! Why don't you try to FEEL it instead? Fill your life with your heart instead. Ohh right now i'm happy, who cares about the details :) You get it right? Life is hard when you make it hard..so why not making it simple and easier for your own's shake?

People usually get upset or angry over the things that happens randomly to us everyday such as broken cars, dirty kids, ringing bells, spilt coffee, angry teachers, failed tests..and on and on...the list of annoyances can never be stopped! So what's the magic? What I suggest now is quite easy that everyone can do it without much effort. Breath in and out slowly. Relax. Nothing can make you run but yourself. Now think of all the things you have to worry everyday..and all the things that could go wrong yesterday...or if they go wrong today? Would it be a little crazy for you to even think you can handle them all? Come on you're not a genie who has the power to controll everything. Don't overworry about life. It is still the way you left it with. So what if you're not perfect? Even life is not perfect itself right? The key to your peaceful and merry life is when you learn how to use the invisibly great strength of your heart. Forgiving and accepting are very easy if you really use your heart into it.

How tiring and boring life is if we only see the dots blocking our visions. However forgeting about controlling life and accepting what you have right now are like making you living in your own perfect stories. Now when you realize that you don't feel upset over something as small as that or perhaps you feel like everyday is a true gift..THEN, it is THEN my friend, you are seeing your life with your heart. Not quite difficult isn't it? I'm not talking about the need of a strong spiritual power to see things with your heart ...it's your thinking about the world that changes your feeling, perhaps your whole life. Interested? :D

Well you might have a slice of thought that i think LESS than others so that i must have been a lot happier. You're wrong. I was and still..a person who always consider everything as specific as i can. I could rethink a problem over 100 times and still..rethink them again .But some of the most important people in my life have taught me those precious lessions and i now share them with you guys. I won't say that i am a good learner..coz i'm still learning hard over here LOL but i hope you guys get the message i'm trying to give you through this note and lead a happier life from now on. Thank you for reading, i love you!

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